How I Left My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend
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- The Vast Majority of Perpetrators Will Not Go to Jail or Prison
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- Why do people stay in abusive relationships?
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Here’s the proof since people have fucking doxxed me over this. Here’s the shallow report the officer wrote. twitter.com/illymation/status/1279990200806961153?s=21
I feel bad for u
I’m sorry you have to deal with these people’s shit, it’s so unfair after everything you’ve gone through
I'm so sorry for you we all have your back
Wait you curs-
I believe you
Wooper..........
How you wanted Harris to die is pretty weird
I’m sorry for u
You should’ve dumped him the second you saw him, no the second he told u to send those photos
You better be buffer then Mr. Clean with that attitude! lol
On February 5th 2015 I was turning five
*time to snuggle up with my crush/very close friend and watch this* Oh wait.. They prolly don’t like me :( I’mma snuggle with them anyways Wait.. I have COVID.. ;(-
✨everything will be ok✨
Me being 10 years old and watching all of these videos over. And over. And over again. I only trust those people on the internet who bond with me like a normal person. I will make sure I’m safe now. I’m sorry you went through this before. I know you want to protect or warn others who were or are as young as you were. I hope you’re doing better now. And stay awesome iliy
You deserve better!
The boy should give you flowers not you
Harris:AgE Is JusT A NumBeR Me:And prison is just a free hotel to stay at
NO NO DONT TOUCH ME THERE THIS IS MY NO NO SQUARE NO NO DONT TOUCH ME THERE THIS IS MY NO NO SQUARE!!!!!!!! GET JOSH DUB MULLY JUICY AND THE MEXORCIST ITS TIME TO CHANT THE SACRED CHANT!
Im so sorry that u had to make that experience and i hope you feel well again 🥰
Imagine if..... Haris: I'll kill myself Ily: K Haris: *Dies* *Roll Credits*
im so sorry that this happened to you! :(
im just so sorry that this went on for five years...
That fact that he has a Zelda profile makes me wanna strangle him out of disrespect for the Zelda fans
If I had the choice to kill one person on the earth with no consequences you all know who I'm going after get the armies ready for real though this is really messed up this guy should rot in prison that would be better I hope this dude goes through hell for the hell you went through he disgusts me anyone like this disgusts me alright Satan get hell ready you got a new person comin
Can I call this a form of kidnapping or some sort of Mind kidnapping that's not even a real thing what am I talking about mind kidnapping is just mental abuse which I can definitely call it 1000000% seriously people like this should be sent to Mars so they can slowly suffocate to death NASA better get on this get them ships ready
He's a f****** piece of s*** they're happy yeah you said to blame on him so there you go
This is the only thing why i dont like some boys, they just start harassing and doing other things to others and not listening to there victims. PLEASE stop this already, even some of those who have authorities STILL dont believe?! I mean what is your purpose then? Just to investigate theft or murder? Not even gonna help those who are in pain and suffering mentally and physically.
*Harrison abusing illy* *Me thinking thats coincidently the name of our food type here at my school*
"Age is just a number" Oh yeah, you know what else is a number.... *911* Hehe, PLUA STUPID.... AGE IS CLEARLY A WORD.
*Claps* No, don’t touch her there, that is her No No square. *Just Don’t*
The worst part is people don’t understand how hard it actually IS to leave people who have hurt you, no matter boyfriend, parents, best friend.
👨🏻🤛Harris this one is for you
Harris :Imma kill myself if u dont send pic!!!!!!!! Me:BROOoOoOOOOoOO MIgHt AS WeLL BeaCHEEE
“Age is just a number” *FBI OPEN UP*
Dad: WHY DID YOU SHOOT HIM!? Me: he’s Harris. Dad: shoot him again. And call the cops. Now.
Glad that you’re safe now
Oh no🥺😔😟
Dai Dai Dai Dai
This is fake. 🤦♂️
Says the guy who has a Swastica on his name.
U didn't left him cuz u still talk about him
illy's ex: exists me: your free trial of living has ended
i hope you're doing fine now : )
people: there are no bad people only people who make bad choices me:but what about haris (sorry if i spelled his name wrong) people:ok harris is the one and only exeption
Hey so I wanted to try this Almost Closer Na you got a long way Ok well just a little longer Your actually almost there now There you go your done..... Jk There, wait I'm gonna type for 2 more minutes Ok I'm done
Damn. That was both frustrating and fun.
Lol xD
Holy crap
Oh I like that that you drew his hair like devil horns Never noticed that before
Dry this happened to u
police really suck
2:40 WHAT THE FUUU-
"Age is just a number" And prison is just a place
I sorry 😐
I’m back for the 2020 chaos
what did hell ever do to derevse harris
@Abigael Myers Hell is bad enough trust me
he dosent belong in hell no he belongs somewhere much much much worse
GOD I HATE COPS
YOUBETTERBESTRONGERTHANMR.CLEANWITHTHATADDITUDE
wow haris being an a****** must be fun
If this was my parents would’ve slapped this guy into OBLIVION . I would know
If I was this girl's father I'd be like Age is just a number but so is 50 caliber
Omg. I feel so sorry for you.
With the power of a makarov pm, I can solve all of these problems
Me watching this is the most saddest thing I heard I hope that guys burns in hell
Discord mods be like
when he spammed die, i immediately thought of a 10 year old roblox bully who got mad because u killed him
Hey, um.. Illy. I really hope that you see this, but I hope that you can take down this video/edit it in some way, but you're spreading some real misinformation by saying that court won't take text messages as a form of evidence. As long as you are able to prove that the texts are legitimate, they are a genuinely good source of evidence. The reason I bring this up now is because I tried keeping it in mind when going through a recent court case- in which I found out that texts can actually be used. I don't think you should keep this info out because it may misinform others and mess with their chances of winning important cases.
@Denki :] while different states have different laws, laws like valid forms of evidence does not vary like how it would among different countries. The officer she spoke to must have been very impatient and shallow to give her this misinformation.
@Grammar Nazi Yes but in a certain part of America that may not be allowed as proof
@Denki :] I'm pretty sure she was in America, where I am.
Have you considered wherever she is they won’t?
illy I’m proud of you
Age is just a number And so is 911
Dang
7:30 I don't usually cry or get near crying when I watch things but damn it got close.
Hope that cop gets fired.
If he was simba would you change your mind-
Harris : I'm gonna jump off a tower Me : do a flip
1:44 - WHAT HAPPEN TO THE DAD EYES AAAAAAAH sorry for mistakes im from Poland
can we get an f in the chat for illy this should never be done to anyone pls seek help if your being abused
This is why I say fuck the police
Yells first date was on my birthday. Do I have bad luck then? 0-0
YASSSS QUEEN DONT LET ANY MAN TREAT YOU LIKE THAT YOU KICK BUT, ILYSSA
I will literally find who ever disliked the video. (What is the point of this)
I'm VERY sorry that you had to be in 10 feet of that piece of GARBAGE
Thank you for making this now i know what to do and what not to do. Sorry you had to go through all of that.
Harris is way worser than Demons NO WAY WORSE
Ownership and love MUST NOT BE MIXED. Ilyssa he owned you, like, you were his pet. The worst is that you couldn't share your sympathy to a close person. When ownership and love gets mixed, then everything in the relationship gets unstable, even the sustainability. Next time be careful, 'cause of you're one of my favourite youtubers and many of your fans are by your side! :-D
“I don’t like going to that section of the mall anymore” If this isn’t hatred, idk what is. I hate Haris. Nobody, NOBODY should have to go through this. I personally have not been a victim of r@pe, but I do not wish it upon anybody else. It sounds absolutely horrible. You are so strong for living through this and I, as well as many others, are proud of you for surviving this.
Illy if I was there with you I'd tell this cop "not caring about the consequences" ARE YOU STUPID THIS CAN RISK PEOPLES LIFE IF YOU ARENT GONNA DO NOT ONE SINGLE THING YOU DONT DESERVE THIS JOB. Then I would dramatically walk out the door. 💜
the police in this video are idiots
illy i just wanna say it is never your fault this guy is a punk who was taking advantage of u
I'm Jenna ❤
Illymaiton you dont deserve to die people like that are just using you
Harris: Im gonna jump of this building! The entaire (sorry for bad english) Illymation commuity: NO DON'T Do a backflip first and dive headfirst down in the ground! I apoigize once agin for the bad english im from Sweden
‘Age is just a number’’ And hitler was just a person
You Better Be Buffing With Mr Clean With That Attitude! Best Illy Quote Ever
1 like = one punch for Harris
I would be there with you I would've followed you on your first date to see if it went well and when he did the stuff to you I would come out of the shadows with my sword (yes I have a sword) and tell him " bro I've been recording what you've been doing and your going to jail soon" and then I'll take you and him to the police station and report what happend and show them the video and when he goes to jail I'll take you to the hotel and tell your mother what happened and that you were too scared to tell them that this was going on
Why the heck do you need a sword to go to the police station... You would just get arrested for having the sword in public. I have swords too and they really aren't great at all for things like this,
I'm so so sorry I can't believe he did that to it's terrible whatever he did to you in that parking garage is wrong and horrible I'm sorry this man is aboustly terrible I'm sorry I really feel terrible words can't describe the anger and sadness I feel in these situations I I know how it feels
There’s a problem in this video and it’s small but still there NO ONE IS BUFFER THAN MR.CLEAN okay period
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😳😳😳😳😳😢😢😢😢😢😢
"No one deserves hate, everyone deserves the opportunity to grow.” -Benji Krol
Illymation: I can’t trust anyone Me: some times.....I can’t trust anyone else ether...so I feel your pain 😔😔😔
Age is just a number and prison is just a place
Damn right!
Im’ sorry dear 🥺😠😡
Nono don't touch me there this my no no square
Girl it's understandable your confuse you were young it's ok we make mistake specially when your an adolescence but you learn and move on depending on how scarring your mistake is.
Hey I love memes and all but c'mon guys, really
A AA O MY GOD
That’s why you eat there soul
if youre in this situation all i can say is that this is not love. i had a bf that used to fake su!cide and tell me he's gonna k!ll himself and that i was the only one who could talk him out of it snd he would make me stay up late at night worrying about whether or not he died and if it was my fault. He used to brag about all his attempts and I didn't think that was odd because I was also 13 (he was 14 he was underage too) he didnt s3xually abuse me though so I don't think any of this is abuse. I was afraid of him near me, I was intimidated by him. I am now in a healthy relationship and he is my best friend I trust him and he is nothing like this and I'm so glad for this. There is someone here for you that isn't going to hurt you, it will all be okay.
“Oh I can kick your butt!” -illymation